Culture, Engagement and Retention
J.Y Delmotte, the co-founder of BuddiesHR, with a mission to provide best working experience for their employees with multiple cool features on slack. J.Y is

CONTENTS
- 00Introduction
- 01Key takeaways
- 02Start with the experience people actually have
- 03Give managers and recruiters a shared role
- 04Use feedback as a prompt for action
- 05A practical way to use this episode
- 06Make the next conversation specific
- 07Bring one real example to the next meeting
- 08Questions to discuss with your team
- What supports employee retention?
- Do surveys improve engagement on their own?
- How does culture affect retention?
Employees are more likely to stay engaged when culture is visible in their work, their manager relationships, and the way the company responds to problems. Retention begins with understanding what employees need to do good work.
The conversation gives HR and hiring teams a practical way to think about culture, engagement, and retention. It focuses on the decisions people make before, during, and after a hiring process, and on the small habits that shape how candidates and employees experience the company.
Key takeaways
- Engagement is shaped by daily work, not by one survey or one social event.
- Culture affects whether employees understand expectations and feel their contribution matters.
- Retention conversations should cover workload, growth, recognition, and the relationship with the manager.
- Technology can help teams hear from employees, but managers still need to respond to what they learn.
Start with the experience people actually have
The episode brings the discussion back to what people see and feel in real situations. A policy, message, or hiring process becomes useful when people can understand it and use it without having to guess what comes next.
Engagement is shaped by daily work, not by one survey or one social event. Culture affects whether employees understand expectations and feel their contribution matters. A team can learn a lot by looking closely at the moments where people have to wait, repeat information, or ask the same question more than once.
This is where HR can move from a broad intention to a practical change. Choose one point in the process, ask the people involved what happens there, and write down the gap between the intended experience and the one they describe.
Give managers and recruiters a shared role
The people closest to a process often see different parts of the problem. Recruiters hear candidate questions. Hiring managers see the work the person will do. HR can bring those views together and make sure the team agrees on the purpose of each step.
Retention conversations should cover workload, growth, recognition, and the relationship with the manager. Before a role opens, or before a new initiative begins, agree on who needs to act, what information they need, and when the team will make a decision. That makes the experience easier to explain to candidates and employees.
For example, after an engagement survey, a manager can share the two themes their team raised, explain what can change now, and set a date to check progress.
Use feedback as a prompt for action
Feedback becomes useful when a team can connect it to a decision. People are more likely to keep sharing their experience when they can see that someone listened and explained what will happen next.
Technology can help teams hear from employees, but managers still need to respond to what they learn. Start with the issue that has the clearest effect on people’s experience. A smaller change, such as a clearer interview invitation or a better handover between teams, can show people that their feedback has a place in the way work is run.
A practical way to use this episode
Use the ideas from this conversation with one real piece of work. Choose one process, one group of people, and one change the team can review.
- Pick a point where people are confused, delayed, or unsure who owns the next action.
- Ask the people involved what they need to know or do at that point.
- Compare those answers with the process your team expects people to follow.
- Make one change that removes a clear source of friction.
- Check back with the people affected and decide whether the change helped.
This approach gives a team a way to test the discussion in day-to-day work. It also creates better questions for the next hiring meeting, manager conversation, or employee feedback review.
Make the next conversation specific
Teams often use broad language when they talk about culture, engagement, and retention. The next conversation becomes more useful when it starts with a recent situation that people can describe clearly. It might be a candidate who stopped replying, a manager who was unclear about a decision, or an employee who found a process harder than it needed to be.
Ask what happened, who needed to act, and what information was missing. Then choose the smallest change that would make that situation easier next time. Give one person responsibility for following through and checking what changed.
After the team makes a change, look for a practical sign that the experience improved:
- People know what happens next without chasing for an answer.
- Managers and recruiters have the information they need before they make a decision.
- Candidates or employees can explain the process in their own words.
Bring one real example to the next meeting
Before your next hiring or people meeting, bring a recent example related to culture, engagement, and retention. Choose something the people in the meeting can see, such as a candidate email, interview feedback, an onboarding question, or an employee request.
Read it together and ask what it tells you about the process. Decide whether someone needs more context, a faster reply, or a different way to complete the work. Record the decision and name the person who will check the result.
Small records help a team learn over time. They show which changes made work clearer and which questions keep returning, so the next discussion starts with evidence from the people involved.
Questions to discuss with your team
What supports employee retention?
Clear work, fair treatment, room to grow, and a manager who listens can all affect whether someone wants to stay.
Do surveys improve engagement on their own?
Surveys identify issues. Employees need to see a response before they will trust the process.
How does culture affect retention?
Culture shapes how people experience decisions, feedback, recognition, and support at work.
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